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La Verne University Moves Forward With Plans to Offer Parents Courses On Divorce, Custody and Parental Alienation

This 8 hour course focuses on dealing with divorce, custody and parental alienation. The course provides an overview of the myriad of issues that parents will need to navigate during the divorce process. It is designed to provide parents with best practices, methods, and techniques to deal with the divorce and custody process. From amicable divorce to high conflict cases and everything in between. Here’s an overview of just some of the many topics that will be covered:

Success or Tragedy – do you have a Choice?
How much will it cost? How Long? What can I expect?
Terms and costs you need to know
Who to trust – Choosing an attorney and other professionals
Child Support/Spousal support
Friends and Family/How to respond to questions about your divorce?
Parental alienation – What is it?
False allegations – child abuse, domestic violence, restraining orders
Abduction risk and options
Violation of court orders

This informative course provides a clear and concise understanding of the process from the perspective of an insider, a law enforcement officer. Providing the information that parents need to better evaluate risk and rewards, so they can change tactics, no matter where they are in the process for a better outcome. Later courses will allow parents to build on their understanding from general classes to more in depth single subject classes on a schedule that will work for them.

Who Should Attend

Parents considering divorce
Parents who have already filed for divorce and are just starting the process
Parents in the process and involved in high conflict case
Parents already divorced but still returning to court for violation of court orders, modification of court orders, etc.
Parents dealing with Parental Alienation
Parents dealing with false allegations of child abuse, false restraining orders and false police reports
Parents dealing with obstruction/blocking custody
Parents concerned about international abduction
Parents trying to better understand the process for assessment of changing tactics in their case

Course Objectives

Upon successful completion of Dealing With Divorce, Custody and Parental Alienation program, you will:

  • Understand factors in choosing an attorney and other divorce professionals
  • Have an understanding of the basic terms, costs and resources that may be ordered in a divorce and custody case.
  • Understand issues related to risk and rewards in accessing what and how to respond to property, custody and financial issues
  • Understand how spousal support and child support is determined and for how long
  • Have a basic understanding of social media and how it affects decisions by the courts on divorce and custody issues
  • Understand what parental alienation is and how it affects children and their relationship with them
  • Know the difference between traditional and non-traditional divorce options, mediation, collaborative divorce etc.
  • Understand how false child abuse allegations, false restraining order and police reports can benefit one parent over the other in custody decisions even if false and methods of protection
  • Understanding risk factors of international abduction
  • Preparing and sending appropriate email and text communications with the other parent
  • How to document violation of court orders
  • Proficient  in what to say to persons at work, family, school staff and others asking about the divorce

Course Instructor

Your instructor is Catherine MacWillie, CEO Custody Calculations and a Child Custody and Divorce Coach. Catherine has 32 years of experience dealing with Family Law. 24 years with the Los Angeles Police Department, where she responded to radio calls dealing with divorce and custody issues, and a first responder to child abuse investigations and other related assignments. She spent ten years researching Family Law and identified that divorce and custody issues may be related to 25% of the crime in the United States. The last 8 years as a Child Custody and Divorce Coach with clients all over the United States and abroad. Catherine frequently presents at conferences domestically and abroad. She is often in the media commenting on breaking stories dealing with homicides, divorce and custody issues. In 2017 her research will be presented in Prague at the International Academy on Law and Mental Health.

Additional

This is the first time that courses on divorce, custody and parental alienation have been offered at higher education facility. The course is in response to the growing recognition of the impact and devastation of the divorce process not only on families and children but on communities as a whole. The university is conveniently located in Los Angeles County near the 10/210/57 freeways

For additional course information, fees and enrollment click on the below link or copy and paste below into your url;
http://laverne.edu/extendedlearning/dealing-divorce-custody-parental-alienation/

 

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Wyatt’s Law: Brutal Abuse Of Toddler Leads To New Bill That Could Crack Down On Child Abusers

Below are excerpts from Fox 17 News, May 2, 2016 by Cassy Arsenault and Inquisitor News March 11, 2016 by Meaghan Ellis

LANSING, Mich. — A Michigan mother is on a mission to start a child abuse registry after her son was severely beaten, and for the rest of the now 3-year-old’s life he will have to work to overcome his brain injury.

Erica Hammel says Wyatt’s Law would be a critical tool as cases of abuse and neglect in Michigan continue to climb. She was devastated when her then 18-month-old son became a victim of abuse at the hands of his father’s girlfriend, Rachel Edwards.  She said she tried everything to keep Wyatt safe, but it wasn’t enough.

In February 2013 her perfect family life came to a halt. Wyatt’s father stopped coming home. He was having an affair with Edwards. He eventually left Hammel for Edwards a few months later. Hammel says she was always suspicious of Edwards, but when she searched the internet and court records she found nothing.  She later learned that Edwards had been convicted of third-degree child abuse twice prior to the incident with Wyatt. Both times, she received only probation.

“If I had just had this one piece of information I truly believe this would have never happened to Wyatt,” Hammel said. Wyatt was left blind in both eyes and couldn’t walk, talk or eat after the abuse. He has had four brain surgeries and two eye surgeries.

“The prosecutor told me that when Wyatt’s case came in and came to their office, it came in as a homicide because they didn’t think he was going to make it,” Hammel said.

Edwards was sentenced to 33 months to 10 years in prison after pleading no contest to the second-degree child abuse charges in connection with Wyatt’s injuries. But Hammel says she is up for parole in a year. Hammel said this is the exact reason Wyatt’s Law is so necessary.

“Child abuse laws are lenient. Abusers are not getting enough prison time, they are not getting tough enough sentences, and that’s a huge issue across the board. And because these people are spending a lot of time in prison, or aren’t getting prison time at all, this is exactly why we need Wyatt’s law,” said Hammel.

Wyatt’s Law has been sitting in committee with state lawmakers for roughly six months.  Hammel says it’s a simple law that allows the state to publish a list of convicted child abusers.

Hammel believes a public registry of convicted child abusers could have prevented her son from being severely brain injured. If a person was convicted of third of fourth degree child abuse they would be on the registry for five years, and for first or second degree they would stay on it for 10 years. However, unlike the sex offender registry there is an opportunity for people to get off of it.

The bill has recently been moved from the Judiciary committee  to the Families, Children, and Seniors committee. The head of that committee is Tom Hooker. Hammel and child abuse victims and their parents are urging you to contact Representative Hooker to get this law passed through.

Wyatt’s story has garnered national attention, as many others agree that child abuse registries should be mandated nationwide. Now, petitions have been launched in other states, and Wyatt’s Law has been introduced into legislature. Although Wyatt has made vast improvements, he still has a long road to recovery ahead.

You can also sign an online petition in support of the law on change.org its page in support of the legislation.

Do you think there should be a public registry for child abusers? Share your thoughts.

To view the video and full article from Fox News 17 click here.  To view the full article from Inquisitr click here. Additional articles;

http://www.freep.com/story/news/local/michigan/macomb/2015/10/09/child-abuse-registry-michigan-wyatts-law/73652222/

http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2016/03/05/couldnt-fight-back-mom-beaten-baby-wants-abuser-registry.html

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Catherine MacWillie is the CEO of Custody Calculations and a Child Custody and Divorce Coach. She has 32 years experience dealing with Family Law. 24 years as a law enforcement officer responding to radio calls dealing with divorce and custody issues and a first responder to child abuse investigations in addition to other related assignments. She spent ten years researching Family Law and divorce including cause, effect, impact, solutions to the many issues that arise during divorce and custody proceedings. The last eight years as a Coach.

She is the past president of Stop Parental Alienation of Children (SPAC). A prior board member of Parental Alienation Awareness Organization (PAAO). An advisory board member of International Support Network of Alienated Families (ISNAF). A member of Parental Alienation Study Group (PASG). A member of the 2014 Parental Alienation Colloquium, Long Beach, California. A member of the 2016 Parental Alienation Think Tank, Beverly Hills, California.

In 2017 her research on divorce, crime and parental alienation will be presented in Prague, Czechoslovakia at the International Academy of Law and Mental Health (IALMH) a prestigious event with participants coming from around the globe to present.

For additional information go to CustodyCalculations.com or visit us on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest,YouTube, Vimeo, or call 702-675-5120. https://www.gofundme.com/2j8wyjss

 

 

 

 

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PRE-ORDER ~ HOW TO BLOCK OR OBSTRUCT FALSE ALLEGATIONS OF CHILD ABUSE AND FALSE POLICE REPORTS

Disclaimer; As a retired law enforcement officer, I do not wish to provide any information that would interfere in an investigation by social services or law enforcement that would result in protecting an individual who has physically or sexually abused a child.

Instead, this information is being provided to protect innocent parents victimized by a system ill-equipped to deal with parental alienation and the process of false allegations and false police reports during a high conflict divorce as one parent seeks to gain an advantage in custody and other issues.

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False child allegations and false police reports are rampant in Family Law and never more so than now. In the past at least a parent might have an indication that they would face false allegations after many years of litigation as one parent sought to either keep or take custody from the other.

Fast forward 2016 and now false allegations are seen as the shortest, quickest and least expensive route to obtain full custody from the onset of the divorce. Why wait when you can avoid years of delays and litigation. Often false allegations involve arrests of the innocent parent.

False allegations also places a further burden on the parent arrested, mother or father, as they must now allocate most of their remaining monies on their criminal defense in addition to the Family Law issues. Which of course is the goal of the parent making the false allegations who also seek  to sever all contact with the children and the innocent parent.

There is little remedy in the system by judges, attorneys and other professionals who simply shake their head and nod in agreement that these are terrible situations and what a shame it is. But offer no solution.

I have 32 years experience in Family Law. As a retired law enforcement officer with the Los Angeles Police Department for nearly 24 years, I responded to radio calls dealing with divorce and custody issues and was  a first responder to child abuse investigations and other related assignments. Now a Child Custody and Divorce Coach for eight years, I have witnessed the decline of Family Law. Especially in the area of false allegations and perjury in spite of penal code protection against such actions in most states.

As a result I have identified actions that may act to obstruct, block and or slow down the parent attempting to file false allegations against the innocent parent. These actions are entirely new with some actions being required in a court order asap. Which the courts may or may not sanction. In other actions if false allegations have already been filed and the parent has been cleared another layer of  action is provided. Two approaches to protect the parent no matter where they are in the process.

For the price of one hour or less with an attorney parents can obtain information that could change their lives and that of their children during divorce. And while no one can guarantee an outcome dealing with false allegations considering the wake of devastation against the innocent parent and the amount of money paid in legal fees to deal with these issues ~ better to do something than nothing.

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Catherine MacWillie is the CEO of Custody Calculations and a Child Custody and Divorce Coach. She has 32 years experience dealing with Family Law. 24 years as a law enforcement officer responding to radio calls dealing with divorce and custody issues and a first responder to child abuse investigations in addition to other related assignments. She spent ten years researching Family Law and divorce including cause, effect, impact, solutions to the many issues that arise during divorce and custody proceedings. The last eight years as a Coach.

She is the past president of Stop Parental Alienation of Children (SPAC). A prior board member of Parental Alienation Awareness Organization(PAAO). An advisory board member of International Support Network of Alienated Families (ISNAF). A member of the international organization Parental Alienation Study Group (PASG). A member of the 2014 Parental Alienation Colloquium, Long Beach, California. A member of the 2016 Parental Alienation Think Tank, Beverly Hills, California.

In 2017 her research on divorce, crime and parental alienation will be presented in Prague, Czechoslovakia at the International Academy of Law and Mental Health (IALMH) a prestigious event with participants coming from around the globe to present.

For additional information go to CustodyCalculations.com or visit us on social media, Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest,YouTube, Vimeo, or call 702-675-5120.

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Parent Released After Serving 18 Years In Prison on False Child Abuse Allegations Related to Custody and Divorce

The below are edited excerpts and my own contributions from the original article by Glenda Anderson The Press Democrat June 29, 2016. 

February 2016, a Lake County man convicted of sexually abusing a child was released from prison after his alleged victim, his daughter, recanted the testimony she gave when she was 10 years old. The man, Luther Jones, spent 18 years behind bars. A judge set him free after his daughter told Lake County District Attorney’s Office investigators she had lied at the behest of her mother, who at the time was battling Jones over custody of their  daughter.

The state awarded Jones $936,880 for wrongful imprisonment. The largest known compensation payment ever made to someone cleared of a crime after being incarcerated in California’s state prison system — if he lives long enough to collect. Luther Jones, 71, slipped into a coma Thursday, the third one since he was released from prison in February. Luther Jones has diabetes, kidney and liver failure and Hepatitis C.

Lake County District Attorney Don Anderson says he’s fed up with liars who fib under oath. In a novel offensive against what many say is a rampant problem in the court system, he’s assigned an attorney in his office to investigate and prosecute incidents of perjury. “I’ve always had a pet peeve about people lying in court. It’s just so very common, especially in the family law arena, for people to come in and just lie their asses off,” Anderson said.

He said he hopes the new program will make people think twice about committing perjury. His office already is examining three cases for possible prosecution. He declined to provide details about the cases.

Perjury is rarely prosecuted, said Ronald Huff, professor emeritus of the Department of Criminology, Law and Society at UC, Irvine. Thousands of people are wrongly convicted of serious crimes each year, many because of faulty testimony where perjury is responsible both for innocent people being imprisoned and guilty people remaining at large, free to commit more crimes, Huff noted.

Some notable exceptions for perjury include home decorating maven Martha Stewart, who was convicted of lying under oath about insider trading in 2004, and Mark Fuhrman, the Los Angeles detective charged with lying about having used racial slurs in the years prior to the 1995 O.J. Simpson case.

The punishment in typical perjury cases includes potential sentences of between two and four years, Anderson said. But in particularly egregious cases, the penalties can be much higher. A California law allows liars whose testimony causes someone to wrongly be put to death to be charged with a death penalty perjury case, he said. Anderson said he’s unaware of any cases in which the death penalty was pursued for perjury.

While wrongful imprisonment cases can be horrific, Fitzpatrick said the courts should also closely examine recantations. “Recantations are very suspect,” he said. Family law cases, in which money and child custody are at stake, in particular are rife with lies, Anderson said. He estimated half of those case files probably include lies.

Perjury goes largely ignored for several reasons, including that they’re difficult to prosecute, the attorneys said. Success depends on having material proof that the person who was untruthful knowingly lied.

“How do you prove, at the moment somebody did something, they did it intentionally?” asked Pasadena attorney Mark Baer, who has written about perjury for the San Gabriel Valley Psychological Association’s publication. One of his website’s blog postings asks: “Does anyone tell the truth any longer?

The article went on to say that perjury is one of the most under reported crimes, Fitzpatrick said. My two cents is that the writer says nothing about the fact that perjury is rarely a report taken by law enforcement agencies. In fact in my 32 years of dealing with Family Law, I have never heard of a report being taken for perjury. Significant because as a retired law enforcement officer for 24 years with the Los Angeles Police Department I never took a report for perjury nor did any officer or detective that I know ever take or investigate a report for perjury. I am not even sure the Department would have allowed me to take such a report.

I have watched as false child abuse allegations have increased over the years in Family Law cases to law enforcement and social services after years of failed litigation to wrestle or keep custody to the first step in the battle for custody after the initial filing. Now seen as the silver bullet and the fastest, least expensive and shortest route to full custody of the children.

A family and criminal law attorney I am familiar with has defended parents accused of false allegations where attorney fees can be as much as $400,000 to $600,000 to defend against allegations. These were middle income families. Not wealthy parents. They didn’t have the money and were able to pay for their defense because of the assistance of their families who mortgaged, sold property or closed out retirement accounts in addition to the accused parent. And it is getting worse every year. Making it likely this story will be repeated in every city and state in this country without the proactive solutions of this DA which I support whole heartily. I hope it results in other offices following his leadership role on this issue.

To read the full article unedited and without my contributions click here.

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Catherine MacWillie is the CEO of Custody Calculations and a Child Custody and Divorce Coach. She has 32 years experience dealing with Family Law. 24 years as a law enforcement officer responding to radio calls dealing with divorce and custody issues and a first responder to child abuse investigations in addition to other related assignments. She spent ten years researching Family Law and divorce including cause, effect, impact, solutions to the many issues that arise during divorce and custody proceedings. The last eight years as a Coach.

She is the past president of Stop Parental Alienation of Children (SPAC). A prior board member of Parental Alienation Awareness Organization with Sarvy Emo (PAAO). An advisory board member of International Support Network of Alienated Families ISNAF). A member of Parental Alienation Study Group (PASG). A member of the 2014 Parental Alienation Colloquium, Long Beach, California. A member of the 2016 Parental Alienation Think Tank, Beverly Hills, California.

In 2017 her research on divorce, crime and parental alienation will be presented in Prague, Czechoslovakia at the International Academy of Law and Mental Health (IALMH) a prestigious event with participants coming from around the globe to present.

For additional information go to CustodyCalculations.com or visit us on social media, Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest,YouTube, Vimeo, or call 702-675-5120.

 

 

 

 

 

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Divorced Parents Applaud the Arrest of Grandparents and Parent for Felony Custodial Interference in Texas ~ Bail Set at 250K Each

Many states have felony laws for custodial interference they just aren’t enforced like many laws associated with Family Law. False police reports, false child abuse allegations, perjury to name a few. A retired law enforcement officer myself for 24 years with the Los Angeles Police Department and now a Child Custody and Divorce Coach I was curious why this case in Texas was so different.

I spoke to the New Boston Police Department. They conducted the investigation and issued the warrants on the grandparents in this article for felony custodial interference in compliance with 25.03. The mother is also pending an arrest for felony custodial interference.

This is a very small police department. Only 13 officers in total. The department still takes police reports on all custody issues and conducts investigations. In cases where it is determined that a violation of court order has occurred the Department provides a warning to the parties on a first offense. The parties are advised that continued violation of court orders will result in an arrest. They said in most cases a warning has proved sufficient to correct the situation. This case was the exception.

The Department said there had been substantial contact with the parties involved over the prior months. Including police reports and allegations of child abuse that later proved false. The day prior to the police taking a report for felony custodial interference the parties had been in Family Law court on a contempt motion. Court was pending final determination of the criminal charges of contempt by the police before making a final ruling and the investigating officer was present for the hearing. The judge ordered the parties to adhere to the court order pending a final ruling. The next day, the grandparents and the mother failed to comply with the court order. This was in addition to the prior three months that the father has been blocked from his parenting time with the child.

The article referenced that during the investigation the grandmother made statements to a reliable third party that she was willing to kill herself and the child to keep the child from the other parent. This lead the investigating officers to issue an Amber alert and seek warrants for the grandparents and ultimately the mother too.

CPS was already involved conducting the prior child abuse investigation and when the child was recovered in Dallas where the grandparents were arrested the child was taken into custody by CPS at that time. Since this is an ongoing investigation the information on the location of the child and/or the release or placement of the child with the father if this has occurred is being withheld.

The District Attorney’s Office, CPS and the police department were all working in full cooperation on the investigation and the DA has filed charges. Bail is set at $250,000 for each of the parties plus additional charges and conditions including a psych evaluation on the grandmother. This information was also referenced in the article.

Essentially, this was a case of the perfect scenario. The prior violation of court orders were well known, documented and understood by police in a small community that still takes reports and investigates them. The information learned during the investigation and the risk to the child, involvement of the courts and investigator being in the courtroom for the hearing the day prior, attorneys, CPS, DA’s office came together in the perfect timeline. Something that doesn’t happen very often in Family Law cases.

This is also an example of a small department with limited resources doing a great job in their community on an issue that is rarely addressed properly to the detriment of most divorced families and children. I wish more police departments large and small acted with the same commitment as New Boston Police Department to it’s community. It would go a long way to saving lives in high conflict Family Law cases. The District Attorney’s office and CPS also did a great job. Again wish these cases were handled like this more often by these agencies too. Also want to recognize Dallas Police Department and their Chief of Police for acting so swiftly on the information on the location of the grandparents.

To read the full article on the story click here.

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Catherine MacWillie is the CEO of Custody Calculations and a Child Custody and Divorce Coach. She has 32 years experience dealing with Family Law. 24 years as a law enforcement officer responding to radio calls dealing with divorce and custody issues and a first responder to child abuse investigations in addition to other related assignments. She spent ten years researching Family Law and divorce including cause, effect, impact, solutions to the many issues that arise during divorce and custody proceedings. The last eight years as a Coach.

She is the past president of Stop Parental Alienation of Children (SPAC). A prior board member of Parental Alienation Awareness Organization with Sarvy Emo (PAAO). An advisory board member of International Support Network of Alienated Families ISNAF). A member of Parental Alienation Study Group (PASG). A member of the 2014 Parental Alienation Colloquium, Long Beach, California. A member of the 2016 Parental Alienation Think Tank, Beverly Hills, California.

In 2017 her research on divorce, crime and parental alienation will be presented in Prague, Czechoslovakia at the International Academy of Law and Mental Health (IALMH) a prestigious event with participants coming from around the globe to present.

For additional information go to CustodyCalculations.com or visit us on social media, Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest,YouTube, Vimeo, or call 702-675-5120.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Family Law Reform Discussion ~ Judge vs Juries. Catch The Interview July 27, 2016 7:00 pm PST/10:00 pm EST

Catch the interview and hear what retired Law Enforcement Officer and Divorce Coach, Catherine MacWillie, says on Family Law reform using juries and not judges to decide divorce and custody issues. What would it take to put juries in courtrooms or should we? What are the issues? Catch this important reform discussion on Talk Radio Experts with Attorney Vincent Davis. July 27, 2016, 7:00 PST/10:00 PM EST. Call 646-668-8791. No registration required. Use the time to listen to past shows dealing with CPS and Family Law. http://talkradioexperts.com/

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Catherine MacWillie is the CEO of Custody Calculations and a Child Custody and Divorce Coach. She has 32 years experience dealing with Family Law. 24 years as a law enforcement officer responding to radio calls dealing with divorce and custody issues and a first responder to child abuse investigations in addition to other related assignments. She spent ten years researching Family Law and divorce including cause, effect, impact, solutions to the many issues that arise during divorce and custody proceedings. The last eight years as a Coach.

She is the past president of Stop Parental Alienation of Children. A prior board member of Parental Alienation Awareness Organization. An advisory board member of International Support Network of Alienated Families. A member of Parental Alienation Study Group. A member of the 2014 Parental Alienation Colloquium, Long Beach, California. A member of the 2016 Parental Alienation Think Tank, Beverly Hills, California.

In 2017 her research on divorce, crime and parental alienation will be presented in Prague, Czechoslovakia at the International Academy of Law and Mental Health (IALMH) a prestigious event with participants coming from around the globe to present.

For additional information go to CustodyCalculations.com or visit us on social media, Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest,YouTube, Vimeo, or call 702-675-5120.

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TO ALL THE MOTHERS THAT WILL NOT SEE THEIR CHILDREN THIS MOTHER’S DAY . . .

HERE IS A LIST OF MY RECENT POSTINGS ON MY TWITTER ACCOUNT, APRIL 30, 2016, CUSTODYCALCULATIONS/CEOMACWILLIE

TO ALL THE #MOTHERS THAT WILL NOT SEE THEIR CHILDREN THIS MOTHER’S DAY REGARDLESS OF COURT ORDER….. I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS

MOTHER’S DAY AROUND THE CORNER. POLICE RADIO CALLS WILL CARRY THE DAY AS SOME MOTHERS WILL NEVER SEE CHILDREN.

MOTHERS/FATHERS CAN’T AFFORD TO GO TO COURT EVERY TIME THEY ARE DENIED CUSTODY ON THEIR HOLIDAY! SHAME ON COURTS

IMAGE CRIMINAL COURTS REQUIRED VICT’S TO PAY FEES ENFORCE LAW WHEN ROBBED, RAPED, BURGLARY. TALK ABOUT LAWLESSNESS. OH WAIT FAMILY LAW IS ALREADY LAWLESS!

MOTHERS DAY BITTER SWEET FOR PARENTS DEALING WITH CUSTODY ISSUES. WILL NEVER SEE CHILDREN.

FOR MANY CHILDREN MOTHER’S DAY ANOTHER DAY WILL NOT SPEND WITH MOTHER. LIKE FATHERS DAY WILL NOT SPEND WITH FATHER. SHAME ON SYSTEM

FOR SOME CHILDREN AND FAMILIES MOTHERS DAY WILL END HORRIBLY WRONG!

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Parent of Divorce Said They Had Given Up Hope

A parent reached out to me. They live outside the United States, the other parent and children live here. They had spent years and thousands of dollars fighting using the Hague Treaty in an effort to move their case back to their country of origin ~ unsuccessfully. I told them why that was not realistic based on the circumstances and what was left of their money. I mapped out a new strategy. They said the other parent won’t work with them. Won’t agree to anything. Within weeks we had an agreement for them to have additional visits with the children. Visits that were not in the court order, without going to court and without using attorneys. Children are excited about the visits. Parent extremely grateful. Said they had given up hope. Said they thought it was impossible. Working on more changes for the client.

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Catherine MacWillie is the CEO of Custody Calculations and a Child Custody and Divorce Coach. She has 32 years experience dealing with Family Law. 24 years as a law enforcement officer responding to radio calls dealing with divorce and custody issues and a first responder to child abuse investigations in addition to other related assignments. She spent ten years researching Family Law and divorce including cause, effect, impact, solutions to the many issues that arise during divorce and custody proceedings. The last eight years as a Coach.

She is the past president of Stop Parental Alienation of Children (SPAC). A prior board member of Parental Alienation Awareness Organization (PAAO). An advisory board member of International Support Network of Alienated Families (ISNAF). A member of Parental Alienation Study Group (PASG). A member of the 2014 Parental Alienation Colloquium, Long Beach, California. A member of the 2016 Parental Alienation Think Tank, Beverly Hills, California.

In 2017 her research on divorce, crime and parental alienation will be presented in Prague, Czechoslovakia at the International Academy of Law and Mental Health (IALMH) a prestigious event with participants coming from around the globe to present.

For additional information go to CustodyCalculations.com or visit us on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest,YouTube, Vimeo, or call 702-675-5120. https://www.gofundme.com/2j8wyjss

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Why After 15 Years Isn’t 9/11 a Federal Holiday?

As we remember 9/11 anniversary prayers continue to go out to all the families who lost loved ones and first responders  who lost their lives tragically that day and later. We will never forget.

Perhaps politicians could ensure  we honor those words spoken in some form or another every day since 9/11 with a federal holiday closing schools and government to mark the day and reminding all of America and future generations.

Especially, since I understand New York schools will be closing to celebrate a Muslim holiday in September. If we can pay the money to close schools for a Muslim holiday certainly politicians can figure out a way to pay for 9/11 to be a federal holiday. Just something to think about after 16 years.

This issue was addressed in the Huffington Post last year by Sandy Malone the wife of retired police captain. When she learned the issue was money. See her remarks by clicking on the below link listed in references.

Reference;

9/11 Should Be a Federal Holiday Huffington Post 09/14/2015 12:39 pm ET by  Sandy Malone Owner, Sandy Malone Weddings & Events  http://www.huffingtonpost.com/sandy-malone/why-isnt-911-a-federal-ho_b_8131324.html

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Family Law ~ Next Month Marks 5th Anniversary Largest Mass Murder in History of Orange County California

The largest mass murder in the history of Orange County occurred on October 12, 2011, when Scott Dekraai strapped on a bulletproof vest, armed himself with three high-powered handguns, and walked into the tiny hair salon where his ex-wife worked. Shooting as he walked from station to station, after first  killing her, shocking the normally tranquil seaside community.

Court records show that Dekraai has been involved in a divorce and custody case for five years since 2007 and had been in court for a hearing. Dekraai was seeking full custody of their son, but a court-ordered review had recommended against that. At the time the attorney, John Cate Jr., said the hearing was “benign,” a scheduling meeting. “Obviously, I saw no indication.”

Dekraai was intent on killing his ex-wife and others who were inside the salon, prosecutors said. He is accused of shooting some of his victims multiple times, stopping to reload while people lay dying on the ground. Shooting the last victim sitting in his vehicle outside the salon as he exited the location.

There were about twenty people in the salon at the time of the shooting. Some managed to escape by running into the street or hiding in neighboring businesses. Six people were declared dead at the scene, and three survivors were taken to a hospital where two of them later died from their wounds. Their was only one survivor.

An officer who saw a man who matched the description of the gunman leave the parking lot followed him. The suspect moments later was taken into custody  without incident.

Two and a half years later, on May 02, 2014, Dekraai withdrew his not guilty plea and plead guilty to eight counts of murder and one count of attempt murder. He plead guilty he said to bring peace to the families for what he had done.

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There are headlines around the country nearly every day of shootings, stabbings, abductions, suicides and more that are related to divorce and custody. While there will always be situations where no matter how much we improve the Family Law process some individuals pushed to brink will commit devastating and terrible crimes against their children, their former spouses, relationships and others. But this in no way excuses us of our responsibility to do better in Family Law.

The above is a combined and edited version of the three below articles on the Seal Beach Shooting. To review the articles in full copy and paste  the links into your url.

http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/lanow/2012/01/scott-dekraai-indicted-seal-beach-shooting.html

http://www.ocregister.com/articles/business-321651-medical-beach.html

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2011_Seal_Beach_shooting

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Catherine MacWillie is the CEO of Custody Calculations and a Child Custody and Divorce Coach. She has 32 years experience dealing with Family Law. 24 years as a law enforcement officer responding to radio calls dealing with divorce and custody issues and a first responder to child abuse investigations in addition to other related assignments. She spent ten years researching Family Law and divorce including cause, effect, impact, solutions to the many issues that arise during divorce and custody proceedings. The last eight years as a Coach.

She is the past president of Stop Parental Alienation of Children (SPAC). A prior board member of Parental Alienation Awareness Organization (PAAO). An advisory board member of International Support Network of Alienated Families (ISNAF). A member of Parental Alienation Study Group (PASG). A member of the 2014 Parental Alienation Colloquium, Long Beach, California. A member of the 2016 Parental Alienation Think Tank, Beverly Hills, California.

In 2017 her research on divorce, crime and parental alienation will be presented in Prague, Czechoslovakia at the International Academy of Law and Mental Health (IALMH) a prestigious event with participants coming from around the globe to present.

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6-Year-Old Boy Upset Over Parent’s Divorce Commits Suicide

The suicide of a 6-year-old Payette boy has disturbed many in the community and left many wondering if a child so young is even capable of such an act. At around 6:20 p.m. on June 3, Payette police received a call from a frantic mother that her son had attempted suicide and was nonresponsive. Payette Police Chief Mark Clark said. Both the Payette and Fruitland police departments responded to the scene, as well as Payette Fire Rescue.

“The first thing I’d like the community to know is that we assigned four detectives to work solely on this case,” Clark said. This was to ensure that the case was given proper attention by qualified individuals to determine that a child so young did in fact commit suicide.

According to Clark, the victim was watching cartoons on the TV in the living room with his 7-year-old sister, while another sibling, a 13-year-old, was napping in a bedroom. The young boy’s mother and stepfather were both home at the time and were showering when the incident occurred.The victim left his sister and went into the kitchen, which was near the living room, and the sister reported to police that she heard her brother making noise in the kitchen, Clark said.

The young boy proceeded to take off his belt, tie it into a makeshift noose and hang himself from the freezer handle of the family’s refrigerator, Clark said. After the cartoons ended, his sister went into the kitchen and found his body. Later, she told police that she thought it was about 20 minutes from the time he left her alone in the living room to the time she found his body.

Clark said that the girl began to scream and ran to find her parents, who immediately rushed to the kitchen, cut the belt and one parent performed CPR in a nearby bedroom while the other called 911. First responders quickly arrived and took over administering CPR to the young boy, Clark said, but to no avail. When the police arrived, both the boy’s mother and his step-father were wearing towels and still wet from the shower and the 13-year-old was still sleeping.

The investigation and a coroner’s report concluded that all signs pointed to suicide and no evidence of foul play existed, Clark said.“The method used was something he could have done himself very easily,” Clark said. However, while hanging himself was confirmed to be intentional, it’s impossible to tell if suicide was the 6-year-old boy’s intent or if he didn’t truly understand the consequences of what he was doing.

“We’ll never know this,” Clark said. “All this boy did was take a nylon belt and make a noose, put the belt through the handle, stepped up underneath and pulled the belt tight in a way that even if he had wanted to undo it, it would have been nearly impossible.”

During the investigation, police interviewed several family members as well as counselors at his school, Clark said. The investigation found that the child had anger issues that seemed to stem from his parents’ divorce two years earlier. School records also documented the boy’s anger-related issues and that he didn’t appear to be handling the divorce very well.

Lucas Hooker, a Lifeways qualified mental health professional in Oregon and a licensed professional counselor in Idaho, said that situations like this are difficult to comprehend, especially when they involve such a young child. There are signs to look for, however, and resources available to seek help if a parent suspects his or her child may be having difficulty adjusting to a major life change and may be in danger of self-harm. “The first thing to do is get them to see their primary care provider and express their concerns with them,” Hooker said. “These pediatricians are able to send referrals to mental health providers out there.”

Hooker said that most children he sees lack the verbal and cognitive ability to properly express their emotions, and “lashing out” with behavior that’s not normal for the child is a common, yet unhealthy, way to do so. Along with aggression or behavior not normal to the child, children who may be suffering from depression or suicidal ideations will often have nightmares, wet the bed and experience other types of regressions, and will also show signs of feeling hopeless. They may also become preoccupied with thoughts of death.

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The above is an edited version of the article published by the Argus Observer, by William Lopez on July 12, 2013.  To review the full unedited version of the article  please click here and others click here.
The story was also picked up and ran as far away as the UK

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2366257/Six-year-old-boy-hangs-belt-family-refrigerator-parents-showering.html

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PARENTS SAY FINALLY SOMEONE IN FAMILY LAW GET’S IT!

That great attorney you can’t hire because you don’t have the money. The expert that you can’t retain because they are too expensive. The forensic accountant you need for the financials but can’t afford. Everywhere parents turn in Family Law they need information but can’t afford the high cost of retainers.

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Catherine MacWillie is the CEO of Custody Calculations and a Child Custody and Divorce Coach. She has 32 years experience dealing with Family Law. 24 years as a law enforcement officer responding to radio calls dealing with divorce and custody issues and a first responder to child abuse investigations in addition to other related assignments. She spent ten years researching Family Law and divorce including cause, effect, impact, solutions to the many issues that arise during divorce and custody proceedings. The last eight years as a Coach.

She is the past president of Stop Parental Alienation of Children. A prior board member of Parental Alienation Awareness Organization. An advisory board member of International Support Network of Alienated Families. A member of Parental Alienation Study Group. A member of the 2014 Parental Alienation Colloquium, Long Beach, California. A member of the 2016 Parental Alienation Think Tank, Beverly Hills, California.

In 2017 her research on divorce, crime and parental alienation will be presented in Prague, Czechoslovakia at the International Academy of Law and Mental Health (IALMH) a prestigious event with participants coming from around the globe to present.

For additional information go to CustodyCalculations.com or visit us on social media, Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest,YouTube, Vimeo, or call 702-675-5120.